Maybe you could dye your hair purple or something ...
Have to say I don't 100% agree with Coach's last post in this instance. Yes, you should take opportunities to re-establish emotional connection with the W. But right now is not the best time to do it this way. She is in WAW mode with OM, you'll just come across weak. Keep her guessing and be mysterious, create the image of being desired by other people out there socially. Just my personal opinion ... but for a WAW, if you pique her curiosity, that curiosity might well be killed off pretty fast if you get her thinking "Ah he had a great day doing the usual boring stuff that reflects the routine and things wrong in the M I am walking away from. Looks like I made a good decision".
She doesn't want to be involved in your life right now. That's why she's walking. Trying to inject details of that life into conversations now will sound like pursuit pretty fast. She doesn't really want to know the details of your great day - she just wants to know how it can be possible you are having anything other than a crappy one pining away for her. It's enough for her to know now that you are doing great with or without her. Filling in those blanks breaks the mystique needlessly.
Further down the road where she shows indecision, regret, even remorse, the ball game will change. But that's just me, I could be 100% wrong .
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
