I guess my point is that if you need to talk you can come here and vent. We will listen and try to help you. Its friday night and the boards are kind of slow. Everyone is out GAL but the point is this place is safe. Talking to your H does no good. Read the detachment link, the resources and try to understand about MLC. It is a very bizarre thing. Until you understand it you will not react the proper way and you will make things worse.