Thanks RW-I know you are going thru a lot yourself and it really means a lot to me that you find time to come and give me some words of wisdom!

I was positive that talking about finances would be ok and I also think that I do need to set some boundaries with when he sees the kids. I don't think it is fair to them for him to just pop in and out! Last week, he didn't even stay as long as he said he would and they were very disappointed!

I am also thinking that asking him to not bring OW to therapy sessions until he figures things out would be a good boundary to set. It is really hurting DIL. Good idea or bad?

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing