He keeps calling me for reassurance and support even though I'm supposedly his main problem in life. Stop initiating contact and only respond to his contacting you later in the day or the next day. Mine takes me for granted the more I initiate contact or respond quickly to him. It's really silly. The less understanding I am, however, the more he avoids me.
That is exactly what my H does. Especially the last part which is bizarre. So how do you handle it? It is like they want us there but they don't want us!!!
