Wow your situation sounds similiar to mine. Can I ask how old your H is? Mine is 44 and I thought from almost day one of this whole mess that he was going through a depression. Before I saw the turn in his personality he would cry all the time. I would often tell him that I didn't mind him crying but I thought he needed to talk to someone. He was seeing a IC but I really think she made everything worse than better.
I have not gone dark with him before but have tried to stay close to him. It will be interesting to see what he does? He may go ahead and call his attorney next week or he may wait to see what I am going to do. I do believe I am ready to move on.
