OldPilot I appreciate the links. I definitely need to detach!!
rr22: My h has not lived with me for seven months now. I know he is going out at times with some younger guys he has hooked up with. I am tired of him treating me like used goods while he does whatever he wants. If he is depressed then that is different.
He keeps telling me he is not going out but I think he is. Does someone who is depressed go out partying?! I do believe it is possible that he is in a lot of mental pain and he is trying to numb it with anything he thinks will make him feel better. I am so tired of it.
I do think I need to detach and go on with my life. I also think I have been too understanding. I think he has taken advantage of it!
