I definitely believe he has some type of depression. I have read several threads on this and another website on depression and MLC and it describes my H to a T. I thought he was coming out of the depression last month. He was coming around more and was wanting to be physical with me but that all changed this month. I guess that is the up and down of all of this.
I have had several people tell me he sounds like a person with an addiction. I know he has an addictive personality and I believe Xbox could be his addiction. He would play for hours and I know he still does play for hours. He just zones off when he plays. It is his getaway!
He completely takes no responsibility with the house unless I insist and then he does it with an attitude. He just doesn't want to be bothered. I feel like my husbands brain has been altered. He is not acting like the man he used to be. He does nothing he used to love to do and does not hang out with any of his old friends. And the other day I found out he is having some problems at work! Like I said before, it is all so sad!
My emotions just can't take this rollercoaster. He can be better one day when he gets my daughter and worse the next. All the while he never seems to care about me or anything to do with our house or our lives together.