Just take some time and relax your mind before the meeting. Do like Mishka said and just treat this like a business meeting, especially when it comes to the money. When it comes to the custody, emotions might run high there, so you just need to be aware of your feelings and if need be, excuse yourself and have someplace you can go (another room) where you can regain your emotions. This is all business, and in business you need to make sure you are prepared for anything. Stay focused on what her proposal is and how you can counter to get what you want. Have a good weekend otherwise. Just relax and try (very hard to do) to not think about the meeting all the time. It will make you more anxious, and you need to be aware and calm.
Kemper, Sorry to here about you sitch. Our WAS's are similar in that my H always said D was not an option and even talked about how another father was horrible for having an affair and leaving his family and how that was damaging to the kids. All said about 2 months before his started.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
