We have been married almost 15 years and together 20. We have one daughter that is 11 years old. My husbands behavior took a dramatic turn over a year ago. A year prior to that he started saying things that I now understand to be warning signs. He is in a high powered and stressful job and he would tell me he can't believe he has to do this for 30 more years.
He started coloring his hair which I thought was weird and he was very very upset he was losing his hair. My husband has always been a good looking man and his looks were changing. He has that "older" look and he couldn't stand it. He would often tell me I was looking better and he was looking worse. He then started taking propecia to help with hairloss but it also effects your sex drive which upset him.
Then all of the sudden he started losing a lot of weight and would go down to our basement to play xbox. He would just work and go to the basement. The more I complained the more he would stay down there. He got to the point that he wouldn't come to bed hardly at all.
Then he left seven months ago. As I said, I am still in a whirl and can't believe he is gone and wants nothing to do with me. The pain is so deep and I feel like it is never going to stop hurting!!!
