Running out of time.

[Kemper]

I will read through your original sitch but wanted to comment on what you have posted here first.

I know our situations are close and I will only point you to the advice given to me. You know your W and sitch better than anyone and it will be your choice in the end.

This page of my old thread is where the majority of advice was given that started me down the path I am on now:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1910828&page=24

I know it is hard but the best thing you can do is to stop snooping. While your W might be having doubts she hasn't brought that up to you and it might just give you false hope. Additionally, I wouldn't take my W back unless she showed true remorse for her actions. Thinking "this" OM isn't right doesn't mean that she doesn't want another OM.

As far as the house goes I would talk with your L to determine your options esp. if the house is underwater.

Going to check out your original thread.