well, my thoughts are when you picked him up, after you didn't respond to any of his texts, I would assume he'd be a little annoyed with that. PLUS, you guys are doing the same thing, and your waiting for the other person to take the first step.
great job biting your tongue! I know that was hard, but remember, he is an alien right now, you HAVE to expect bad behavior from him, this is normal alien behavior!
if he does ask to do something, I think it's a great opportunity to have fun, but you have to be that duck! like G said (I think) these are tests, and he is going to push your buttons, partly subconsciously, and part not. He is looking for change because he doesn't believe it will get any better. and same with you. but if someone doesn't REALLY change, then it won't get better.
So, do you think your up to the challenge if he gets negative if you go out with him? what you have to do, is return all his negativeness with your positiveness. everytime he says something yucky, perhaps visualize his head having green slimy things crawling out of his nose and ears and maybe it will make you laugh! or gag. lol
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."