Trying to move on

[Kemper]

Sounds like you have a great weekend planned. Enjoy it.

Kemper. You haven't been married all that long. Was there any indication before marrying that she was the type to play the field?

Nope. Based on our conversations I figured she had gotten it out of her system when she was younger. She wasn't a s*ut but she wasn't a virgin either (who is these days) so I thought she got it out of her system.

When we talked at length before getting married these were some of the things we talked about
* Divorce wasn't an option unless there is physical/verbal abuse or an A. We would work together to solve any issues in our M. We both felt very strong (I still do) about this since we both come from D households.
* My W looked down on people that had an A. She commented about how they didn't try to work on M. An A was a dealbreaker and would lead straight to D if I ever had one.

Now I did change my tune a little about an A being a dealbreaker after all this crap happened.