he's been dodging service of being sued by creditors that have sent process servers out. he has even go so far to hide his truck to not have it repoed.

i would get him service, just call him to the hospital for the birth, not really would be giving birth, but when he did show have him served.

i haven't gotten that far yet. i don't think i will have it together by the birth with having to do what i need to at work.

i can wait till after the birth and say he can come over to see the baby and have him served them.

or i can have a friend pose as someone interested in having him do work for him and serve him that way.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline