Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

LOL what?
I visited a friend of mine who clearly thinks I'm nuts for 1)having hope and 2)wanting to reconcile. She doesn't know as much about my sitch as you all do, but I think the real reason is that her exH cheated on her with 4 different women. She had no clue whatsoever until she opened a piece of mail that was from one of the OW requesting her child support. So there is an OC out there somewhere. Currently he is living on again off again with the last OW and they have a child together. He still wanted my friend back though but it was all too much for her. She just told me that if we divorce I should keep the house for equity.
She is happily involved with a great man.