I really appreciate you taking the time to write down what you did in your sitch as it relates to the children. It is important and can never be said enough esp. when children are involved.
As far as the detachment goes:
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Detaching isn't about not loving the person anymore, not wishing it would work out, or being mean. What it is about is knowing that in the worst case scenario you are going to be ok.
You didn't barge in on the discussion. This is an open forum where we are all here to try and support each other during one of the hardest times of our lives.
Hope you had a great night tonight.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10
This is an open forum where we are all here to try and support each other during one of the hardest times of our lives.