Ok...cleaning the toilet and had a HUGE moment of clarity. DIL called earlier and said that H's sister asked her again what was going on with us so DIL told her. She said since she saw him with OW with her own eyes she thought it would be ok. I agreed. She also told me that OW was with H AGAIN at therapy. H knows that DIL goes there at the same time. OW stays in "our" truck in the parking lot. WTH is he thinking? He has not even made an official announcement to ME or our children that he has choosen her over us. H is being disrespectful not only to me and our kids, now our DIL AND with such a huge possibilty of running into any of my co-workers, clients, our friends etc. etc.
I can't believe what a different person he is! IF he has any thoughts of us parting as friends...I can't even fathom that right now. I feel I have to say something to him about this. He could at least wait until we are official...I don't even know right now if I want to continue with DBing. I am just not sure he will ever be someone that I could ever respect again!!!
Loving distance is no longer loving....
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
