Here's Ready2Change's recommendation of books to read:
Recommended reading(listed in order): The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage by Michele Weiner Davis The Four Agreements Toltec Wisdom Collection: 3-Book Boxed Set by don Miguel Ruiz Radical Forgiveness, Making Room for the Miracle, 2nd Edition by Colin C. Tipping Hold on to Your NUTs: The Relationship Manual for Men by Wayne M. Levine Keeping The Love You Find: A Guide for Singles by Ph.D. Harville Hendrix The Love Dare by Stephen Kendrick The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary Chapman His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley Jr. Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley P. Glass Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray Teach Yourself Flirting ( Book + Audio CD) by van Rood Sam
The Bible: corinthians 7-11
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
