So.

Original plan for tonite, agreed upon 3 days ago, was that she would pick the kids up at Kid Sports Complex after Boy Child's lesson at Dinner Hour, take them to her place, feed etc. them, then off they go early tomorrow to Snow Place for the weekend. I was to have the carry-on bags packed for them with their travel stuff. Did my part.

So.

STBXMRSSP calls at Dinner Hour Minus Three. She finds she has to go to the Dr. "for something." How about SP collects them from Sports Complex, feeds them, and drops them off at her house at Dinner Hour Plus Two? "Is this life-threatening?" No, just something.

Doing this will mean I have to cancel my tennis match.

So.

What's my move? Do I say "consequences," compel her to skip the Doc
or find a ride and possibly hang the kids out to dry without a sure pickup and feeling hungry?

Do I rescue her and TCB my kids and take the hit on the DB boards for
obviously still harboring secret fantasies of reunion and renewal?