I too am in the uneviable position of having to break the news to my young twins (presumably w/my W). The thought of this tears me up inside. This whole damn mess would be infinitely more manageable if young ones were not innocent victims. It demonstrates to me the astonishing selfishness and disconnect from reality (fog) my W is currently operating in.
dw82, detachment is severly complicated by the presents of children. I, you and anyone else are not afford the opportunity to make a clean break from our W's (in these cases) as we will be tethered by the children for years to come. If it wasn't for the children I would simply cease all communication and truly detach and move on. But I will do my best and make the best of a tragic situation.
I haven't mentioned a word about about her A or the OM since the initial begging, pleading BS etc. when it was discovered.
Thanks for the support man!
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
