nightshade, yep, it doesn't take much for the old insecurities to come back. at times like this I think there has been too much water under the bridge to eve be good again in the long run, but then I also think that there has been too much healing these past 21 months to not continue getting better. He sent me an email telling me we need to talk without getting mad or defensive and ended it with "your loving husband". Lisa
