I keep telling myself I am going to be the three C's if she does not tell me. However, for her not to tell me would be very wrong and irresponsible. I want the ability to prep them as well. My W tends to try to avoid conflict so who knows what will happen.
This is going to be hard on the children; they are now just realizing what D means and not to toot my own horn, but I am a better parent that she is. She knows this.