yes , there are plenty of activities to involve with. I guess i'm depressed and it's hard to get off my butt when i feel this way. Feel tired and sleepy alot of the time. Need to snap out of it, BUT you guys know how HARD this can be. Funny thing IS, however, wife involves me in many activities, ie( gym, lunch and dinner out, movies, meeting friends for a drink, getting massages and pedicures together,etc...). BUT....she has made no mention of R, or any advances romantically . Then , today at walmart, she mentioned something about painting the kitchen cabinets. This confuses me as to her future intentions!!! ???