Originally Posted By: Gnosis
So back off for the weekend and let that point sink in. Put the cat in the freezer or in a temporary grave. Cancel church on Sunday. Give her time to think about this... help her get the point!


1-Poor cat died 12/30/09!!! It's just been so cold that even on the days where we did escape single digits, the ground is frozen atleast 3-5" below, every try and dig a hole in that? To say anything of the umpteenth inches of snow. not fun, we'll say that.

2-No way, I'm going to church. That is huge to me right now, and I've NEVER been actively into religion. When we were going prior to the S it was very spotty. I need all the redemption and recharging I can get, I'm going, the boys are going. If she doesn't fine.

3-Time she will have. Doubt it will be used for this prupose tho. She's going out tonight with her girlfriend whom 'friended' me on FB. Well, she made a post saying that W was bringing back twiddeling thumbs. I replied that if it's in the sense that when you tell W you're going to be there at "X" time and she isn't ready, then yeah, your left twidddeling thumbs. Frined said, "that's W" and I said 'well, she's all your tonight' and whamo, friend logged off. Hmmmmmm.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11