AND THAT FOLKS IS HOW IT IS DONE! A leader's words are few, but well chosen and packed with meaning.
Congratulations to you on how you have handled yourself OB. I can't express how happy I am for you right now.
Now be cautious... you don't KNOW what exactly went down with her in the last few days. We can only speculate. I advise you to PROCEED WITH CAUTION at this point. You are NOT out of the woods yet. She has shown some promise so far. Let her live to her words.
You are STILL not her #1 choice at the moment. You need to be #1 and she has to prove it to you. So far everything she has done has been out of emotion. Be patient before you get your hopes up.
AGREE with all of that. Well-done AND be careful! I question whether her sudden "getting it" has only to do with a spat (at least) or OM DUMPING HER (at most), and once he comes groveling back to her and says all the right things, she might have a change of heart.
It is imperative that you go for TOTAL TRANSPARENCY at this point. NOW is the time that it is done!!!
