Originally Posted By: dday101798
No dice, she took the page out of my play book and said we'll discuss it later, not a suitable topic for texts.

NO IT IS NOT!

Originally Posted By: dday101798
She's gonna balk, I know it.

Maybe, maybe not. How you enforce your boundary is up to you at this point.

Originally Posted By: dday101798
Atleast like trying to save the M prior to going full tilt to D, I tried.

No one will dispute that.

Originally Posted By: dday101798
I've been clear to the point, my last message being the most direct, I know I had told her in person that that is how I feel.

Hmm... I shudder to think about how you've been tip-toeing around that elephant for so long.

Originally Posted By: dday101798
Hopefully with some time to read then re-read the message it will sink in and stike the nerve it needs to.

So back off for the weekend and let that point sink in. Put the cat in the freezer or in a temporary grave. Cancel church on Sunday. Give her time to think about this... help her get the point!

OK, mishka422, your turn...


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
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