OB! laugh I'm glad things are looking up for you.

Originally Posted By: overburdened
She called OM on speaker phone

Now she's taking some action.

Originally Posted By: overburdened
She said - " You aren't worth it, I GET IT NOW! and if I hear any sh*t from this point forward you will not like the results, are we clear?

These words raise my antenna...

Originally Posted By: overburdened
I Mean It, I am so mad at you right now I could kick your *ss!

So... why is she mad at him? My guess is he wasn't going to leave his family for her.

Originally Posted By: overburdened
It's S8's birthday so I let her.

Congratulations on your son's birthday OB!

Originally Posted By: overburdened
BTW - I have probably said 50 words this whole time.

AND THAT FOLKS IS HOW IT IS DONE! A leader's words are few, but well chosen and packed with meaning.


Congratulations to you on how you have handled yourself OB. I can't express how happy I am for you right now.

Now be cautious... you don't KNOW what exactly went down with her in the last few days. We can only speculate. I advise you to PROCEED WITH CAUTION at this point. You are NOT out of the woods yet. She has shown some promise so far. Let her live to her words.

You are STILL not her #1 choice at the moment. You need to be #1 and she has to prove it to you. So far everything she has done has been out of emotion. Be patient before you get your hopes up.

Wish I had better words to use right now to explain this better.


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT