W just got back from meeting with her L regarding D. She says that she is so pissed because of the situation we are in regarding very little liquid assets. She said that once she is on her own their will be no more risk takings, she just wants to be comfortable. She keeps bringing up our old house where bills were easy to pay and very little stress. (We had to move because I was unable to keep all my business stuff their. Last year the neighbor started a home for sexual offenders with head injuries next door, WE ARE LUCKY WE MOVED)I validated all her concerns. Kids to spend night with her so I packed up overnight bags with everything they need and brought it over for them.

She asks me to fix a light and I say that I don't do husband things for you anymore. She goes off that she will just hire somebody to do it then, but she knows how tight with money I am so she thought I would just like to fix it myself. I said that I feel used when she asks me to do these things and she should call a repair man when she needs something fixed, I will understand.


me 31
her 31
ilybinilwy 10-2-09
i moved out 12-13-09
boy 7
girl 3
boy 16 months