So, I've stopped eating at the house with the family. Stopped hanging out there.
We've had joint finanaces up until now. I sent an email to W today that I've changed my direct deposit to go to my personal account, and that we're going to have to talk about how we're going to pay the household expenses.
She called me up and said that she's extremely hurt, that I'm going to leave her in thr lurch, said I was acting cold, and that she realizes she's making a really good decision and that my feelings for her are not sincere. Then she hung up.
Nope, I didn't say anything mean or defensive, I just said "this is what happens" - in regard to dividing our finances.
I'm picking up the boys tonight to have them for the weekend.
Well, carrying on with the rest of my day. Pain in the a$$ divorce.
