Originally Posted By: K4D
Ok,

So what are yall saying, drop the girls off and hit the clubs tonight? Bail on them all together and take D8 somewhere else? Bring a date and really throw my girls into confusion?

How are yall saying to handle tonight?

Kevin


I swear you must do this on purpose. WTH Kind of answer is this?

The old "REDUCE IT SO MUCH SO I CAN OVERSIMPLIFY AND EXTREMIZE OTHER'S VIEWS -- AND THEN PRETEND I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT THEY MEAN --AND I CAN BE SNOTTY & SELF RIGHTEOUS ALL AT THE SAME TIME!....crap.

Yeah K, we're ALL saying dump the b#$%^ and have sex with OWs...sure, that's it. Either be a doormat or a slut....those are your ONLY OPTIONS...
Forget that question I asked you about a possible other course of action?
I'm with Jack3...you think your plan of "repairing the r's with" her family, (meaning, I guess, they tolerate you in the same room on YOUR days with the girls and once in awhile on hers), is working so well, and they MUST want you two to reconcile, then by all means, keep at it. Don't change a thing!! Surely don't change YOU! You're perfect for your stbx w just as you are and EVERYONE in her family is seeing it all now so clearly. She was a fool to leave you. You're so different now, (or you were always fine?) that you two have lots in common now and your problem and conflict resolution skills are vastly improved as are your decision making talents....everything is great now. Good luck, Happy Graduation Day!

j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change