feel like bomb dropped again

[sage]

Hi Lisa,

I'm sorry that you're back and tht you feel like "bomb-dropping" stage all over again...

It's hard to tell from your post what's fact (eg, happened thru action) and what's a result of your ASSumptions. Like the part about you not exciting him, him wanting someone younger, etc....

Can you tell us what you're seeing as actions, what h has actually said (not that that makes it fact...we know that! LOL)...

I don't know enough about your sitch to remember where in the process you are but I DO know that ebbing and flowing of desire and interest and commitment...for both parties is not, ahem, unheard of in these parts....The overarching goal is an UPWARD trend in all of those to be sure...but it is NOT a unidirectional process.

I'll bet if you tell us more we can relate!

Sage