Can any good come out of giving W some "space"

[brknheart]

Friend or no friend, I'd be wary of meeting her 1 on 1. There's nothing for you in it. I would be even more wary of talking to her about your W.

Your situation is much more optimistic than most of posters here. You and your W are talking and she is 50% sure of reconciliation. I second taking it one day at a time suggestion.

Yea, Im not going to do that again with her friend. Regarding talking with my W, we havent talked in 2 weeks. I txted her on Sunday to tell her good luck on her new job, she txt back saying thanks.

Im still on vacation, having some good times minus the nights when I dream about my wife and sitch. Mornings are bad but the days are great. I just wonder if she even cares anymore, if she thinks about us or is just trying to avoid it all together. I may be setting myself up for disappointment but the truth is Im past that. She has disappointment me several times since the separation started and I know the worse has passed.

I have so many things going thru my head the past couple of weeks. How can my life be different without my W, could it be better? Am I better off? Could I be happier with OW? What is the purpose of dragging this on even more? So many questions and no answers. Im still young with no kids but I made a commitment and still dont want a D. In the end though, I feel like I may have to be the one to move on and tell her I cant wait any longer. I wont be giving up, I just cant take the emotional abuse anymore.