Wife wants best of both worlds

[Kemper]

The best thing you can do is be available to the kids if/when she introduces them to OM. The way their minds work I don't know if she would end up telling you that it is going to happen.

I honestly don't know what I would do if I met someone amazing that I was seriously dating. I personally would probably wait a good amount of time before there was an introduction. However, we are logical and the WAS is not.

Good luck.