Don't use your daughters as an excuse. You're their dad. Start acting like it.
You're not improving relationships. You're ignoring Kevin's needs to keep the peace.
I am not using them as an excuse. It is D8's birthday. This is what she wants. I am not going to punish her because of feelings me and FIL may have towards each other. At the same time, because this is the situation, I can also try and rebuild a bit.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...