I am going to post this on the newcomers and separated forums .

I have been 5 years through this process.
I have Db
I am separated
There have been lies
There have been court cases
There is other people now.
There are 3 children involved- all young adults.
There is daily upset by the 3 children caused by the Father and his woman.
This is the ugliest divorce known to mankind

AND STILL I GIVE A DAM ABOUT THIS MAN

Why do I care. I want to get on with my life and Iam but constantling drawn back to the loss of the family unit, the loss of the man himself.