The 2 circles. I understand completely what you are saying. That is exactly how a M should be. Some of both of us together and then a bit of us individually outside together. That is healthy. I'm not sure how to focus that point tonight other than not focusing on W at all tonight which is pretty much my main goal. I'm just going to try and enjoy the evening with the girls as I am very anxious about doing dinner with W's real dad given he was an initiator of the D.
At one point when I was still in our house he told W that he is thinking about coming down and dealing with me himself. Not sure what that was going to entail. But I am not looking forward to seeing him tonight.
But tonight is about D8 and not him as far as I am concerned.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
