So ironically after I posted that I hadn't heard from W for some time, she texts that she's on her way 'home'. I was busy and kept it short with "ok". So she replies "are you ok"? As G pointed out , she knows me and I said "I'll be fine".
She comes back with "smile honey I love you more than anything. You make me, me. I need you and want you forever"
I got tactful to get my point with: "Understood. I and others don't want to see me or the boys hurt again and I need reassurances from you honey. Actions not words".
I just got the reply "what can I do? What did I do? I will do anything for you, you know that".
So it's time she puts her money where her mouth is: "Every link to OM has to go. I will never feel secure in our relationship until every tie between you two is severed".
Let's see how that goes...........
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11