Change the dynamic. Throw HER for a loop for a change. See what happens. What have you got to lose?
By wearing a polo and showing her I still don't care about my appearance when that was a big gripe of hers prior to all of this? I'm not sure that is a 180.
Bringing a date I know shows her that I have moved on and no longer feel the need to have her in my life. But it also sends a message to her, my girls, and everyone else that I do not want to convey. While we have both done are fair share of things that are wrong in this process, I would like to think I can reflect a positive tone and image that shows where we should be, not where we could be.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
