First, let me say that I am sorry you are here. But this is a great support network with a lot of good advice and experience and M's do get saved on here even when they look hopeless.

Also, now is a good time to prepare for what could be a long roller coaster ride.

What are you doing about getting a life and focusing on improving your outlook and yourself all around?

You should fill us in with more information. What kinds of problems did you have besides financial?

I assume you are still living in the same house. Are you in separate bedrooms or the same one?

How are you about giving her space while you focus on learning and the things you can control?

How is the interaction between you and your kids?

K4D


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...