P... How are you doing my friend.... I am noticing were not posting as much... Perhaps were healing...
Hey Cutter. I'm doing not too badly. Up and down the same as usual.
Saw my IC on Tuesday. Wednesday was a down day. Thursday was good. Today not bad.
Heard that after the Xmas rush, OM didn't get taken on by the shop W works for. Other than that nothing much to report. Trying to get on with my life. Having a hard time getting hold of solicitor (been trying since Tuesday with no luck).
W has not signed separation agreement as yet. My guess is her solicitor has advised her to not sign it as there is therefore no incentive for me to D her. May have to sell the house here starting Feb. She will not be getting a D until I am ready.
Been having 'waves of love' (best description I can find) for W over the last few days. No idea why.
NC anniversary is coming up - 2 months on 17th, 2 months since I last spoke to W on 23rd, 3 month anniversary of when OM moved in passed on the 10th, 5 months since we separated on the 2nd.
I got to thinking today how much happier I am now than when I was in the M.
As JD from Scrubs says 'when we stop fighting, we find time is on our side'. I am trying to take it easy. Trying to get a bit of oomph back for life again.
Have a few thoughts I'd like people's advice on and will post them when I am ready.
Nothing much else to report.
Last edited by P17; 01/15/1007:49 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
