Listen - she is going to do whatever she wants to do right? If she wants this divorce there's nothing you can do!
You need to work on YOU - don't let her see you down and out and pathetic! I'm not trying to be mean here I just want you to know how important it is for her to see that you do "seem" ok. It is upsetting to WAS when their LBS is not an emotional wreck - it really keeps them thinking.
Stay strong - do you have the books are you reading here and learning?
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10