Originally Posted By: CityGirl
Because we are at a point where time is running out to meet and execute the remainder of our Agreement via the courts and waiting a week is a luxury neither of us have right now.

Trust me - after the BS he just e-mailed me I would like to tell him to never e-mail me again. Until all things are settled that is not an option.

He just now told me that I don't understand his "pain points", stress or frustration. He is right. I don't. Because I can't mind read and can only work off the info he chooses to share with me. That is exactly how I responded and he then says "stop making me feel like a jerk".

Again, just like it has been for the past decade - he gets upset because I don't know what he is feeling and I can't guess. In turn, I am the "bad guy" because of this.



Then just do what you think is right, and let him think what he will.
You don't have any control over his thoughts, feelings, or actions anyway...so why bother?
You already know this.
And I know it's upsetting...you have a conscience!


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.