I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[talia]

OH and to add a littl more background H was severely abused as a child. I knew that something bad happened but he never talked about it and I respected his privacy. I've found out the details since he left. Not sure if that changes how I handle this. Before he left me made alot of comments about why did I love him, why would I want to be married to him because he's so mean to me, I deserve a better husband, etc.

Hope that helps!