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You all say it does at some point?


Not all of us.



Just the smart ones. ; )


Here is an example.

Hypothetical:

You stopped doing things you liked, enjoyed, were good for you because there simply wasn't enough time in the day with a wife and kids.

Now you have the time.

While you are doing these things...like say... uhhh building a model airplane.

You aren't looking for another relationship. (This is important)

So your not re-using dusty skills and relationship tactics from your past...instead you are working on yourself and sharpening these tools, discarding the ones that don't work, and getting new ones.

You're taking a hard look at yourself and redefining you as you want to be...not trying to redefine yourself by what someone in a relationship wants.

...


Or something like that. : )



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