Thanks 25. I got it. I will come back and re-read it over and over if I get the urge to text or call. As far as finances the taxes went up almost doubled on the house (I'm living in it) and my lawyer said when I get the new ones we will take H back to help pay those expenses. H still isn't paying 1/2 of the one big loan that we have, he pays whatever he feels like paying but my lawyer told me that we would have to get a legal separation in order to make him pay half and it is a 50/50 chance to go in my way. They don't like to do legal separations here and that the masters would rather a divorce and to settle it then. Plus I can't afford to go for a legal separation. The cost is $750 just for the masters fee, not including the lawyer's fee.
So I'm waiting for new tax bill which should be here next month and go for spousal support but then again it will be the same amount he is paying towards the one loan. So I know H will pay the spousal but then stop paying part of the one loan and it equals out to what I would get. So I guess I'm confused on what to do.
Trying to GAL is so rough right now. I'm working two jobs, and have the kids to take care of......running to practices, games, etc.
