Or, is she really that niave to the consequence of her A and honestly thinks "sorry" is all that is required as a remedy?
Yes, she is that naive. She has no idea that there are any real consequences because you haven't given her any. As Gnosis said, as soon as OM was gone (or so it seems) then you came running to the rescue. There is a time and place for pulling the 'knight in shining armor' act, but this is not it. She has to learn what it is to stand on her own two feet and not have you to turn to. You never gave her that opportunity.
Also, Dylan, buddy, pal............STAND UP TO HER! She wants back in.......she has to prove it. Be totally transparent, go to counseling - immediately - not just MC but she needs some serious IC. She is codependent in a BAD way.
You know I hate to deliver 2x4's especially when I have NO room to talk, but I just felt it was necessary this time.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!