Society has made so many mental dysfunctions that you can literally go to a book and pick one now, and say that is the excuse for my bad behavior.
And so then the pride beast takes over, and before that person realizes it, pride rules them.
Again, who knows. Right now, they are a bunch of mutant zombies.
My W's IC told her she was Co-dependent on a bad relationship with me. Of course that was based on the complete and total truth coming from my W. My W in the beginning of the R used the excuse that she was Co-da for not working on the R until she fixed herself. Now Pride is preventing her from admitting any wrong doing for the ONS's and 5 week affair w/ #2 OM which is the last thing a Co-da person should be doing.
I like to refer to her as the "alien" and she is hidden somewhere down in the green goo.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
