Okay, so now that I have calmed down a little bit, here is my revised response.

When you choose to limit the time you spend with the kids I feel that you are not taking their best interests into consideration. I understand that you travel for work, but I do not understand why you would not jump at the opportunity to make up for some lost time. Please let me know when you plan on telling the kids of your Orlando trip and your decision regarding the following weekend. I want to be present when this conversation takes place.

In addition, I think it would be wise for us to go over the calendar for the remainder of the year prior to you making any other travel arrangements. Since we have never discussed this in any detail, I just want to make sure that we are both on the same page going forward.

What does everyone think? I am still not sure that I should even respond at all.


Me & H: 33 yrs
S: 4 & 6
D: 2
M: 9 yrs
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
SEPARATED: 9/09
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