K4D It's a Wonderful Life

[K4D]

It seems like you have difficulties making decisions for yourself.

At times with some things, yes.

-You want the church to tell you whether you can have another relationship.

I am not looking for them to give me permission. I am looking to see if it falls within church doctrine if things go to absolute worst case scenerio. There is a difference.

-You wear what your STBXW wants you to wear.

I try to look good for her. But I also enjoy looking good for myself.

-You won't take control of your own finances, because you think your STBXW won't like it.

I run my own finances, but I am not looking to further separate things to a finally. If she wants it, she can pursue it. I will comply if that is what she wants. I am not moving things to a closer situation of D.

-You let your STBXW determine how you spend your time with YOUR daughters.

No. I spend my time with my kids how I want. I take others into consideration when it comes to special times/events that are special to the girls.

Kevin