Running out of time.

[Cie la vie]

I am posting for the first time in this forum. My initial thread is in the newcomers forum under "All signs point to game over". I'm not sure how to create a link to it for those who are interested in my story. Sorry.

Anyway, my sitch is reaching a head and I have been feeling pretty crappy the last few days as the reality of it is really sinking in.

I finally received the DR and immediately read up on the LRT. Which I realize I have been actively doing for sometime now. Unfortunately I really haven't noticed any change in my W MO. She has been over the last few weeks more engaging in conversation with me but may be because I have been more receptive to conversation than I was in the early stages of initiating the LRT.

If you had a chance to read up on sitch you will know that my W is involved with a OM. There maybe some doubts forming in my W mind that this guy is not right for her. I form this opinion on some snooping I have done on her cell phone. I read a text message from her good friend that suggested she has doubts in the OM.

Anyway my W has found an apartment and is moving out in two weeks. We have been through two rounds of mediation and temporary custody arrangments are in place.

This morning my W brought up the topic of when we were going to put the house on the market. This is obviously a very uncomfortable topic for me. Once the house is sold our family is cooked and the D is certain to go through.

My question is since I do not feel I have gotten anywhere with the LRT would it be a mistake to ask my W if she still feels this is the right decision (the D)? The main reason I am considering this is the revelation that she may have doubts about the OM.

I'm getting desperate here but have been adhereing to the LRT game plan without fail. Not sure what my moves are from here.

Any advice would be welcome. Thanks.