Do you think she would do intro to the kids w/o telling you first? That would be cruel. Don't you think a more likely scenario would be to intro him as a casual friend, and then whatever. Not that I would let her get away with that, but who knows what they are thinking. I must admit that I think it will be hard on the children no matter what.
I feel the same on our Separation aggreement which is costing us both money because whe will not work directly with me, she refuses to face the consequences of her decisions to our kids and how much they are going to suffer. When I type that, I do get angry. Anyhow, if we can get the sep agreement behind us then that is the set up for divorce and all we have to do is wait. I will definitely be in the same boat as you soon, unless she has some revalation sometime soon.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
